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How
to Insulate Athletes in Crisis:
The Aftermath of Littleton, Colorado |
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By
Kathleen Hessert
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| "This is not something that is dealt with in a day or a week or a month," Attorney General Janet Reno has said. "This, as we have learned from Oklahoma City and other tragedies, is something that must be dealt with over time, and we are in this for the long haul." |
Meanwhile, the entire nation watches in astonishment as threats of copycat
crimes emerge in Colorado, California, New Jersey, Texas, and Pennsylvania
-causing us to look at our own communities with fear and uneasiness.
In this incident, several students were targeted and killed by their
classmates simply for being athletes. How does this impact student-athletes
everywhere, and how can parents, teachers, and coaches help their athletes
to work through their fears?
Events such as these can have a devastating effect on athletes, who
draw their character and much of their success from closeness, interdependency,
bravado, and chemistry among team members. In Colorado, athletes who
have lost team members, and even a coach, may not know where to begin
when coping with the tragedy.
The Aftermath of the Trauma
The impact of this tragedy is twofold. Firstly, it's a shock for the
student-athletes of Columbine High School, who will never forget the
violence and cruelty their fellow students directed toward them. Secondly,
it's a crisis for student-athletes across the country, who no longer
feel safe in their own schools. At a USA Today discussion forum, a scared
student posted this question: "What is being done to make sure that
it doesn't happen to me? What is being done to keep me, my friends,
my classmates, and my teachers safe?"
There are two things you, as a coach, parent, teacher or school administrator,
can do to deal with this situation. You can counsel your students now,
helping them to deal with their own fears and concerns. If you're in
the off-season, don't let that deter you. In fact, your caring attitude
now can help build an even stronger bond between you and your athletes
by the time the season begins. Call them, send them a note, stop them
in the weight room, and tell them that you're there to listen.
School administrators and coaches can also prepare for the day when
a crisis may hit your team by instituting a Crisis Management Plan that
includes Post-Trauma Counseling.
Keys to Coping After a Crisis
1. Avoid "Business as Usual"
Experts contend that it's inappropriate to act as if nothing has happened
or assume business as usual. Players and staff look to their coach for
direction, so send them a clear message of understanding. In order to
refocus your athletes for the season, you must acknowledge the emotions
that run very high after a trauma.
2. Assess the Team's Needs
Because degrees of trauma vary, you must address the team's needs both
as a unit and as individuals. Are school counselors and ministers needed,
or should you bring in professional post-trauma counselors and sports
psychologists?
3. Act Fast
When a traumatic event takes place, you must act within the first 24
hours. This is where crisis planning is critical. For example, what
if the crisis happens on the road? When a traumatic experience occurs
while your team's away, the confusion and lag time are multiplied. You'll
need extra help because you don't have the same resources available
as you do at home. Documenting steps taken while handling the crisis
can also ease the process the next time a crisis occurs.
4. Look for Support
Another key to dealing with traumatic events is to look to assistants,
trainers, and other coaches who've dealt with similar situations. Since
the Colorado incident is causing ripples nationwide, all of your colleagues
are probably dealing with similar fears among student-athletes.
There are also great resources out there for coaches, such as The Coach's
Communication Playbook, which has a chapter on Post-Trauma Counseling.
Coach's Websites, such as the Fast Track For Coaches section at http://www.sportsmediachallenge.com/coaches,
have discussion groups where you can interact with coaches from all
over the world about your coaching concerns.
5. Make it Mandatory
It's not unusual for coaches or athletes to avoid post-trauma counseling.
There's something inherent about sports that convinces participants
they're invincible. Your student-athlete may be experiencing anxiety,
but he or she may not feel comfortable sharing it with you, for fear
of being perceived as weak. How do you deal with this? Make the first
meeting with a counselor mandatory. Let them gripe about it, but make
them go so that the counselor can assess their needs.
6. Care About Your Team Members and Staff
Their well-being is your primary concern. If it's not your style to
be warm and talkative, listen. It shows compassion and understanding.
Post-Trauma Counseling Can Help!
Post-trauma counseling benefits you and your team in the long run because
it helps people sort out emotions and gain closure, while reinforcing
the solidarity of the group. In Colorado, Columbine students and their
families are doing just that as the community gathers to counsel and
mourn.
Every coach lives in fear that something like this will happen to their
athletes. The only way to face these fears is to deal with them head
on, with planning and foresight. An important part of that is being
prepared to offer Post-Trauma Counseling to your student-athletes if
and when they need it. And, after such a high profile tragedy like the
one in Littleton, talking about lessons learned can help you prepare
before you have to learn them firsthand.